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The Secret to Success

The one thing no book can teach you is how to chart your own course.







The 8 Best Books I Read in 2025

Eight books on power, technology, human possibility, and absurdity—and what I learned by leaving more room for silence.




Happy Birthday to Me

Turning forty, questioning inherited milestones, and wondering why success has to feel so hard.








The Outside View

The perspective you would offer someone else in a crisis may be the one you need yourself.





The 6 Best Books I Read in 2024

Six books that changed how I think about power, leadership, food, masculinity, and holding ourselves back.






Self-driving Cars

What riding in a Waymo made me reconsider about the cars, streets, and rules we take for granted.



RIP Forward

An inside perspective on Forward’s ambition—and the operational and financial realities of reinventing healthcare.



Fuckboy Problems

When the desire to be wanted masquerades as care for someone else.




An Experiment

An experiment in publishing unfinished thinking instead of letting perfectionism keep it in drafts.


What’s the best kind of squat?

What paying attention during a squat can teach you about working with your body instead of imposing a plan on it.


On taking selfies at the gym

What our reactions to gym selfies reveal about vulnerability, judgment, and our own insecurities.




Macros Are Lying To You

What calorie and macronutrient totals leave out about the food you actually eat.


Leaving San Francisco

Loving a place, outgrowing a chapter, and letting go of the identity attached to it.






Five Goals for 2022

Five intentions for 2022: making room for creation, connection, and letting go.



Don’t Hire a Chief of Staff

Before hiring someone to coordinate your executives, ask why your executives need that coordination.



Early Thoughts on Early VR

Early impressions of virtual reality: the promise of presence and the friction between a compelling demo and everyday use.






Rock and a Hard Place

Why music streaming’s economics depend on the bargaining power of labels, artists, and distributors.


Leveling Up

Moving beyond your job description to understand what the company actually needs to succeed.


The Spherical Cow Startup

A beautiful model of the company at scale is little help if you ignore what could kill it next month.


On Network Effects (and Ducks)

When investors ask for network effects, are they describing your business—or repeating what they want to hear?



Attention, Attention!

What Facebook’s purchase of Oculus suggested about technology companies competing for control of our attention.